Don't be A Slave
9 min readDon't be A Slave
How to opt out of a game you can't win
Morpheus: You can see it when you look out your window or when you turn on your television. You can feel it when you go to work... when you go to church... when you pay your taxes. It is the world that has been pulled over your eyes to blind you from the truth.
Neo: What truth?
Morpheus: That you are a slave, Neo.
If the rise of AI hasn't forced you to fundamentally rethink your role in society: who you are, your choices as a consumer, and your roadmap as a parent, then you are likely either willfully ignorant or inherently dim.
To be "institutionalized" isn't just about being in a prison. It is the act of buying into a script without a single conscious choice. It is the lazy, not even comforting belief that "if everyone else is doing it, it must be right." It is the blind faith in a bargain: If I suffer now, I will be rewarded later.
But look around you. That bargain has been broken for a decade. The "promises" have collapsed, one by one.
The First Promise: "Work Hard, Buy a Shelter."

This died in 2015. With the invention of PSL (Pledged Supplementary Lending) or "Shantytown Renovation Monetization". The financial powers injected liquidity into over-supplied land. Prices skyrocketed. The connection between "labor wages" and "housing prices" was permanently severed.
The Sanhe Gods were the first to realize this. Their slogan, "Work for a day, play for three", wasn't just laziness, it was an economic rationalization. Why grind in a factory when the reward (a home, a future) had been removed from the table?

The Second Promise: "Your Struggle Has Value."

This died around 2017. As the "Ge You Slouch" and "Sad Frog" (Pepe) memes took over, the middle class began to realize that 996 wasn't building a future; it was just maintaining the status quo.
In 2020, we finally named it: Involution (Nei Juan).
I tried to define it in 2022, and I stand by it now: "Involution is the inflation of self-esteem and moral quality; it is the inevitable result of decoupling work content from actual innovation and creativity." You aren't creating value; you're just spinning a wheel faster than the guy next to you.

The Third Promise: "There is a Happy Ending."

This died when we looked at our parents. We saw the "success stories"—the ones who followed the rules, bought the house, and paid the debt. What do they have? An "honest" life? Or a pathetic, fearful existence where they travel cheaply on a fixed pension, too exhausted to enjoy the freedom they finally bought?
That was the trigger for "Lying Flat" (Tang Ping), the "Four No Youth", and "Full-time Children". These weren't acts of rebellion; they were rational responses to a bad deal.

The Final Promise: "Education Equals Safety."
And now, we have AI.
This is the final nail in the coffin, and this is why I have no empathy left for the sleepwalkers. The script says: Sacrifice your childhood, memorize the answers, get the degree, and you will be safe. But AI has made it aggressively clear that "rote work" and "knowledge retrieval", the very things our education system worships, are now free commodities.
If the housing promise is gone, the value promise is gone, and the happy ending is gone... why are you still pushing your children into a meat grinder that no longer even has a payout at the end?
The Exit Strategy: Non-Violent Non-Cooperation
So, what is the alternative when the entire script has collapsed? I don't have all the answers, but the exit plan is clearer than ever: A low-burn-rate, high-skill life.
You have to un-institutionalize your mind and stop bleeding cash to feed your fear. Cut the vanity. Stop buying into the consumerist illusion that your worth is tied to projecting an image that you are doing better than your peers.
Once you strip away the fear-driven spending, you buy yourself the freedom to focus on building real skills:
If you are a parent: Stop outsourcing your child’s future to a broken system by grinding for money to pay for tutors. Build your actual parenting skills. Raise a human, not a test-taking, better institutionlized machine.
If you are a student: Stop memorizing facts that AI can fetch in a millisecond. Build your learning skills. Learn how to adapt, synthesize, and think critically.
If you are a white-collar worker: Stop fighting to be the most efficient, obedient screw in a meaningless, obsolete machine. Cultivate true creativity. Innovate. Do the things the algorithm can't do.
The End
I originally planned to write a 10,000-word essay expanding on institutionalization, elitism, and the collapse of consumerism. But it just dawned on me: if you can’t see the reality laid out above, if you still can't let go of the script, you won't have the attention span to finish reading it anyway.
Happy Lunar New Year, readers, if you made it this far.